View on Tantra

According to the dictionary, tantra means "expansion." Tantra is also translated as "loom." It is a philosophy of life that focuses on connection and (greater) enjoyment of life. It uses body awareness as a growth process in life and ultimately points the way to enlightenment.

Connection

The connection, first and foremost, with myself. Becoming aware of what's going on in my own inner world. This makes me aware of boundaries, wishes, and desires, and I search for the words to discuss them. This allows you, too, to feel and express what's going on inside you. The connection between me and the other person arises when we both feel a "yes."

Questions I ask myself to increase my connection with myself:

What does this do to me?
What do I think about this?
How am I feeling right now?
How does my body respond?
What thoughts come to mind?
What emotions do I feel?
Where is my breath?
Where is my curiosity drawn to?
How would I like to respond?

Being Aware and Feeling Freedom

Freedom is another aspect of tantra that I've integrated into my life. The freedom to move as I please, to follow my curiosity, to say yes to my desires and boundaries, but also to say no to the desires of others. Taking responsibility for my own life by living and choosing consciously. Aware of thoughts, patterns, and beliefs. This creates space to choose something different. Allowing myself the freedom to experiment, make mistakes, and have fun.

My massages reflect this through the freedom you have on the massage mat. You can move as you please: turn whenever you want, reposition your arms/legs/head, lie on your side, make yourself large or small, sit down. You can also use your body as you please. a dog or cat This is how we do it, and in this way, we make the most sensitive touchpoints visible. If thoughts arise that start to swirl in your head, express them. Not that we have to do anything with them, but that this thought apparently wants to be seen.

Doing what is right and frameworks

Live fully in the moment, because that's where life happens. Do or say what's right within that moment. For me, for you. Within the agreed-upon time. frames. These frameworks provide safety, manage expectations, and allow us to seek out "yes" instead of constantly running into "no"s.

During our massages and workshops, you'll notice this, for example, because we never force you to do anything. You decide whether to keep your clothes on or off, and whether to fully participate in all the structures of the workshop. With a booked massage, we might do exercises beforehand to get more in touch with your body, or if touch is still difficult.

My practice is affiliated with Tantra guide.

For whom

My massages are intended for people who:

Wanting to get out of their heads and into their bodies
Want to experience more connection
Enjoying or wanting to relearn how to enjoy touch
Want to learn to feel boundaries in their bodies
To be curious
Would you like to try something different from a regular massage?
Wanting to look at shame, fear, pleasure, anger, sadness
Wanting to learn to receive without having to give anything back
Want to experience more freedom in their lives
Engaged in consciousness development
Want to experience what it feels like to be vulnerable

A tantric massage works with energy. This can make you suddenly feel a renewed zest for life, or so relaxed that you're suddenly tired and sleep soundly again. Want to know what to expect? Click here. hereDuring the massage, you rediscover yourself. You can trust that what your body needs most at that moment will emerge. You can also read the following blog post about this: A tantra massage - you get yourself back.

The offer

Massages:

White tantra massage, an appointment of 90 or 120 minutes is immediately to book in
4-hand massagewith Willemijn, you can make an appointment online
4-hand massage with Jacqueline, make an appointment by contact to record